• Inclusive to unusual kinks
  • Modern design and availability of mobile apps


  • Database limited to fetish fans
  • Small number of members
  • Payments are displayed on your bank statement as

Quick Summary is unlikely to be your one-stop-shop for all of your gay dating needs simply because the audience and the focus of the website are very limited. The site has a nice interface and mostly genuine members, but, unless you are heavily into a particular kink, you will hardly find a lot of matches on Review: A Place To Unleash Your Fantasies?

For a long time, there was no specific place for gay individuals who are into various fetishes and kinks to find like-minded matches online. That is why was launched and managed to achieve a certain level of popularity. Right now, it is one of the leading places on the internet for gay fetish lovers to meet, but it isn’t a mainstream dating site.

Signing Up at

recon sign up

On your first visit to, you can find out quite a lot about the service, why it was created, and who you can find there. The home page of the site even introduces some of the most popular kinks, including leather, bondage, and master and slave relationships. However, you cannot explore the site’s members unless you create an account.

Signing up for is very easy: you need to provide your desired username, age, and location, and then specify your email and password. Verify your account by clicking on the link in your email, and you can consider yourself a rightful member of Recon.

Design and Usability

The design of is very simple and understated, but the predominant use of black and red colors constantly reminds you that you are, in fact, on a kink gay dating site. On, you won’t find any enormous menu options or eye-catching animations — everything is designed to help you find what you are looking for without wasting your time.

In the top right corner, you will find a link to your own profile with an opportunity to edit it or upgrade your account. On the left, you will find the main site menu, where you can find links to member galleries, search, site blogs, top 100 members, your recent visitors, and even the magazine. 

On the bottom of the page, you can see various links to other sections of the site, including a guide on safe online dating and the Recon blog, where you can find out more about the site and its administrators. There you will also be able to see the buttons leading to’s accounts on several social media website.

User Account Features

recon profile

There are several ways to discover member profiles on and you can search members based on their locations, but whenever you are in the country, you are unlikely to find a lot of matches — overall, Recon has only a little over 57,000 members, which is considerably less than other gay dating sites.

Member profiles on are not very informative. In most profiles, you will find one or several photos and some very brief information on the person’s age, appearance, and sexual preferences. Some members also have hidden parts of their profiles, and you can only access them with a Premium membership. 

From every profile at Recon, you can add the member to your friends of favorites, send them a gift, cruise the user, or send them a message. Most of those actions are only available to members who filled out their profiles completely, which is likely done to ensure the safety of users. Prices

recon pricing

It is possible to user as a free member, although you will eventually face certain limitations. The solution to unlock the unlimited Recon functionality is to purchase a Premium membership. 

A Premium membership will allow you to use advanced search and filters, view full-size photos and every upload in the gallery, visit an unlimited number of profiles, and even enjoy an ad-free user experience in the app. The prices for a Premium membership on are slightly higher than average, but you can buy up to 12 months of membership with one purchase.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is a scam?

No, is not a scam. The site actually provides quality services and there have been no reports of user data being mishandled by Recon. Plus, even if you decide to spend money on Recon, the money will go towards your improved user experience, not in some unknown direction.

Is safe? is generally a safe dating site. There is a special section on the website dedicated to the safety of online dating, which includes advice on communicating online, meeting, and engaging in sexual activity with the members of the service.

At the same time, we did not like two safety aspects of First, the purchase of a membership will be displayed on your bank account as, which may not be great if someone else can view your records. Second, it is possible to view the profiles on Recon even without registration.

Does have a mobile app?

Yes, there is a app available both for Android and iOS, which you can download directly from App Store and Google Play Store or find links to them on the website. Both apps are distributed for free, but you can purchase a membership when you are using them.

The two Recon apps don’t have the most positive reviews online. While some users are happy with the design and functionality of the apps, others complain about various issues, including the apps regularly crashing and having limited functionality compared to the desktop version.