• Inclusive both to gay and bi members
  • Detailed search


  • Small number of members
  • Focus only on casual dating
  • NSFW visuals
  • Fake profiles

Quick Summary

OutPersonals promises you a huge number of gay singles and convenient dating site functionality, but in reality, those claims are far from the truth. The number of members on Out Personals is very modest, the site is not particularly easy to use, and overall, your chances of finding a perfect match on OutPersonals are slim.

OutPersonals Review: Is It Better Or Worse Than Other Gay Dating Sites?

OutPersonals is a gay dating site that has been around for more than two decades. The focus of the website is casual dating and hookups, so if you are searching for a long term partner, OutPersonals may turn out to be a waste of your time. But what about the member database and other features of Out Personals? Check out our OutPersonals review to find out!

OurPersonal Audience

When you are choosing a primary dating site you want to spend your time and money on, you always want to know where there are enough members for you to be able to choose the most suitable ones. Unfortunately, the size and quality of the audience at Out Personals may turn out to be disappointing for you.

The OutPersonals website mentions having over 100,000 members, which is not particularly impressive, considering that OutPersonals has been working since the late 1990s. There are gay dating sites who have been around only for a few years and have managed to build a larger audience. Plus, Out Personals leans heavily towards casual dating and hookups, not real long-term dating.

Signing Up at OutPersonals

OutPersonals sign up

Your experience with OutPersonals.com starts with the home page, where you won’t find a lot of information about the service. There are some stats about the site’s members and a few facts about its operations, but there is nothing essential for you to find out before you decide to become an OutPersonals member.

You will find the sign up form on top of the screen. First, you will need to specify who you are and who you are looking for on the site, as well as include your location and age. The second sign up screen will require you to provide your email address, choose your password, and fill in two mandatory introduction fields, which we felt was a waste of our time, since you should be able to do it afterwards. The final step of the registration process is verifying your account via email, and then you can finally move on to exploring the site.

Design and Usability

If you find the interface of OutPersonals.com familiar, you are not wrong — the site belongs to the Friend Finder network of dating sites that is somewhat notorious in the online dating community. We found the design of Out Personals to be very busy and difficult to navigate. On top of that, the site is filled with NSFW ads, and even the user photos on OutPersonals are mostly NSFW pictures of genitalia.

On OutPersonals.com, there is a top menu, where you will find links to your own profile, various types of search, live broadcasts with male models, ranks of the hottest members and photos, and community groups, blogs, and magazine. There is also a menu on the left, which contains links to your messages, favorites, and other activities, as well as access your Hotlist and upgrade your account.

User Account Features

OutPersonals profile

There are numerous fields you can fill out when creating and polishing your profile, but many members choose to leave some of the fields blank, which is why the profiles at OutPersonals are not very detailed and don’t tell you much about the person. Plus, you can only view complete member profiles when you have a Gold membership, which means you cannot even take a look around when you have just signed up for OutPersonals.

If you are interested in any member of OutPersonals, there are several ways you can interact with the profile. You can add it to your Hotlist to come back to it later, add to your Friends list, where it will be visible to other members, or send out a Flirt. You can also send an instant or a regular message, tip the member, or send a gift. Naturally, most of these actions will require you to have a Gold membership or to pay for them separately.

OutPersonals Prices

OutPersonals pricing

OutPersonals offers just one membership plan — the Gold membership. You will first be offered to purchase a Gold membership when you finish creating your account, and if you refuse it then, you will have plenty more options to do it if you continue using OutPersonals.com. 

In fact, you cannot really do much with a free account on Out Personals, since the most popular features, such as viewing complete profiles, messaging, and 24/7 customer support are only available to paying members. One month of Gold membership on OutPersonals costs $27.45, but you can bring down the monthly cost if you pay for 3 or 12 months at once.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is OutPersonals a scam?

OutPersonals may not be a 100% scam, but it lacks the trustworthiness and reliability of other gay dating sites. The fact that most features on Out Personals are hidden behind the paywall and the staggering number of obviously fake profiles make us think it may be, at least partially, a scam.

Is OutPersonals safe?

OutPersonals has some features of a typical safe gay dating site: there is an extensive Help section with dozens of questions answered by the site administrators. However, those questions mostly concern your experience as an OutPersonals.com user and financial issues, not your personal safety while you are using the site. 

Plus, Out Personals has a customer support system, but it is only available via the contact form on the site, and a speedy response is not guaranteed. There is no live chat or email assistance, which is worrying. You can also communicate with OutPersonals via postal mail, but this type of communication will take you even longer.

Does OutPersonals have a mobile app?

If you search for an OutPersonals mobile app on the internet, you are unlikely to find what you are looking for in your search results. However, the OutPersonals.com website does advertise a mobile app, but it is only available for iOS. The Out Personals app is not well-reviewed on the App Store, which is a telling sign of its quality.

Moreover, it’s not a dedicated OutPersonals app — it was designed as one dating app for all Friend Finder members, which means you will find not only men, but also women and couples there. The app itself is free, but you can pay for your membership and other features through it.