OutPersonals Review: Is It Better Or Worse Than Other Gay Dating Sites?


  • Inclusive both to gay and bi members
  • Detailed search


  • Small number of members
  • Focus only on casual dating
  • NSFW visuals
  • Fake profiles

Quick Summary

OutPersonals promises you a huge number of gay singles and convenient dating site functionality, but in reality, those claims are far from the truth. The number of members on Out Personals is very modest, the site is not particularly easy to use, and overall, your chances of finding a perfect match on OutPersonals are slim.

Full Review

OutPersonals is a gay dating site that has been around for more than two decades. The focus of the website is casual dating and hookups, so if you are searching for a long term partner, OutPersonals may turn out to be a waste of your time. But what about the member database and other features of Out Personals? Check out our OutPersonals review to find out!

Signing Up at OutPersonals

Your experience with OutPersonals.com starts with the home page, where you won’t find a lot of information about the service. However, the home page mentions having over 100,000 members, which is not particularly impressive, considering that OutPersonals has been working since the late 1990s.

You will find the sign up form on top of the screen. First, you will need to specify who you are and who you are looking for on the site, as well as include your location and age. The second sign up screen will require you to provide your email address, choose your password, and fill in two mandatory introduction fields, which we felt was a waste of our time, since you should be able to do it afterwards. The final step of the registration process is verifying your account via email, and then you can finally move on to exploring the site.

OutPersonals sign up

Design and Usability

If you find the interface of OutPersonals.com familiar, you are not wrong — the site belongs to the Friend Finder network of dating sites that is somewhat notorious in the online dating community. We found the design of Out Personals to be very busy and difficult to navigate. On top of that, the site is filled with NSFW ads, and even the user photos on OutPersonals are mostly NSFW pictures of genitalia.

On OutPersonals.com, there is a top menu, where you will find links to your own profile, various types of search, live broadcasts with male models, ranks of the hottest members and photos, and community groups, blogs, and magazine. There is also a menu on the left, which contains links to your messages, favorites, and other activities, as well as access your Hotlist and upgrade your account.

User Account Features

There are numerous fields you can fill out when creating and polishing your profile, but many members choose to leave some of the fields blank, which is why the profiles at OutPersonals are not very detailed and don’t tell you much about the person. Plus, you can only view complete member profiles when you have a Gold membership, which means you cannot even take a look around when you have just signed up for OutPersonals.

If you are interested in any member of OutPersonals, there are several ways you can interact with the profile. You can add it to your Hotlist to come back to it later, add to your Friends list, where it will be visible to other members, or send out a Flirt. You can also send an instant or a regular message, tip the member, or send a gift. Naturally, most of these actions will require you to have a Gold membership or to pay for them separately.

OutPersonals profile

OutPersonals Prices

OutPersonals offers just one membership plan — the Gold membership. You will first be offered to purchase a Gold membership when you finish creating your account, and if you refuse it then, you will have plenty more options to do it if you continue using OutPersonals.com. 

In fact, you cannot really do much with a free account on Out Personals, since the most popular features, such as viewing complete profiles, messaging, and 24/7 customer support are only available to paying members. One month of Gold membership on OutPersonals costs $27.45, but you can bring down the monthly cost if you pay for 3 or 12 months at once.

OutPersonals pricing

Frequently Asked Questions

Is OutPersonals a scam?

OutPersonals may not be a 100% scam, but it lacks the trustworthiness and reliability of other gay dating sites. The fact that most features on Out Personals are hidden behind the paywall and the staggering number of obviously fake profiles make us think it may be, at least partially, a scam.

Is OutPersonals safe?

OutPersonals has some features of a typical safe gay dating site: there is an extensive Help section with dozens of questions answered by the site administrators. However, those questions mostly concern your experience as an OutPersonals.com user and financial issues, not your personal safety while you are using the site. 

Plus, Out Personals has a customer support system, but it is only available via the contact form on the site, and a speedy response is not guaranteed. There is no live chat or email assistance, which is worrying. You can also communicate with OutPersonals via postal mail, but this type of communication will take you even longer.

Does OutPersonals have a mobile app?

If you search for an OutPersonals mobile app on the internet, you are unlikely to find what you are looking for in your search results. However, the OutPersonals.com website does advertise a mobile app, but it is only available for iOS. The Out Personals app is not well-reviewed on the App Store, which is a telling sign of its quality.

Moreover, it’s not a dedicated OutPersonals app — it was designed as one dating app for all Friend Finder members, which means you will find not only men, but also women and couples there. The app itself is free, but you can pay for your membership and other features through it. 

Joseph Laury

Joseph Laury is a gay dating platform expert. For five past years, he has been working as an analyst in a top-rated gay dating company. Surely, he knows how all this should work from within so there are only objective assessments in his reviews. He was glad to help our project to grow since he completely supports our mission.